Men, Women or Couples (man and woman) for Intimate Relations or Other "Alternative" Activities

I`m not here to to play games or mark my bedpost or be a mark on yours. My purity test is what I have done in the past, its not what I`m willing to do with you.If you send me email please include a photo. I don`t reply to all, but I do read all.Looking for a guy that can be respectfull,honest, non demanding. Someone local,or you do the driving, you host or hotel (local being Irvine,Mission Viejo, Lake forest, SJC,) no strings, no drama, no BS. ( not into allys, backseats or public displays).
My Ideal Person: Ideal person would be age range 30s to 40`s, be HWP,an unselfish lover that is a min of 7 in. that has stanima and is willing to make sure I get to enjoy the sex too. Really tired of you assholes that think I`m here for your enjoyment only.
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship
Have you ever had cybersex?:I've tried it, but it's just not the same.