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I am a bisexual woman looking for playmates for occasional fun with me alone and sometimes with my husband. Mostly submissive by nature, I am multorgasmic and am looking for men with staying power and women who can take the lead. I don't want to complicate things. If you're from out-of-town and are not planning on travelling to my area, then let's not waste each others' time. No, I am not going to go visit you in some other city or country.If you don't have photos, then please get some. Not likely that I will meet you with out them.Please be honest, respectful and sincere with your intentions.WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
My Ideal Person: I think I covered some of that above, but will add that I want partners who are confident without being pushy, experienced but not egotistical. With all that there has to be a little bit of chemistry as well. I have to at least like the person I am fucking.If you're a lady then I would think it would be nice if we could be friends as well and possibly share some other time together. Do you like to shop? LOL!Sexually, I love foreplay, so have a talented tongue. I also like stamina. Seriously, if you're gorgeous and endowed but 'finish' after 5 minutes please consider someone else.This may be the biggest aspect I am looking for. If you can't wrap your head around the concept of recreational sex, please don't contact me. I really don't want to be romanced as I get that at home. What I do want is great sex though.If you are insanely busy and don't have some time in your schedule please don't waste my time either. It shouldn't take 6 months for things to happen. It's simple really. If we can connect, let's meet for a drink and see if things click. If they do, be prepared to take it to the next level. Please don't waste my time with endless e-mails that don't go anywhere. 1) No, I cannot meet in the daytime. I have a day job.2) I cannot host at home. I will share the cost of a hotel room or we can go to a local swingers club.3) Messaging me that you're "in town now" isn't going to get you laid. Give me some notice as I have to make arrangements.Update** I've discovered that I have an issue with men who wear too much cologne Please, beyond your deodorant, don't wear any cologne.Finally, please understand I know what I am looking for so if I decline your network invite, or tell you I am not interested, begging me to "reconsider" is not going to make it happen. Thanks for checking me out
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:A long list....
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Leather, Latex, Massage
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to m???�nage ???� trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite
Have you ever had cybersex?:I've tried it, but it's just not the same.