Men, Couples (man and woman) or Groups for Intimate Relations or Group sex (3 or more!)

So here's the latest iteration of what I think I'm looking for...hope this finds him...I???��?�?m an easygoing, intelligent, fun, friendly female who loves sex and loves other people who love sex. I???��?�?m looking for an unattached man to date for semi-regular dinner/conversation/great sex evenings. Let's start with something casual and friendly. If it eventually gets serious, that's fine too. I???��?�?m very attracted to individuals with advanced academic degrees, writing skills, and/or imaginative minds. I generally don???��?�?t resonate with hunters, Harelys, Fox News fans, or Nascar enthusiasts. If we were to get together, I would need to take things slowly and exchange a few emails first to be sure we click. I'm into travel, philosophy, technology, music, art, and personal growth. I love any sort of ethnic food. And I like lots of sex with a bit of an 'alternative' edge and I'm open to pushing that edge. I also like sleepovers.My #1 turn-on is intelligence.I also have an interest in an intimate relationship with a couple, although that option seems fairly overwhelming most of the time. One thing you do need to know is that I'm overweight (see picture). Not like 'morbidly-obese-I-break-a-sweat-walking-up-the-stairs' fat, but I'm definitely not a size 8. And I can respect that some people are just not attracted to a larger woman. But perhaps I will blow your mind in ways you've never imagined. I don't have the best body in the world, but I can do amazing things with what I have. I'm also quite tall, so if you're much shorter than 5'10" or weigh less than 190, we may not be a good physical match. I am 100% healthy and insist on condoms.
My Ideal Person: Please be reasonably close to my age, over 5'9", and within an hour's drive.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:My place, Your place, A hotel room in some fun location.
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:Intelligence, Confidence, Open-mindedness
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:Ick, no. I prefer a real, accessible person instead.