Men or Women for Erotic Chat or Email, Discreet Relationship or Intimate Relations

Over the whole relationship thing for now. I have been enjoying the single life for a few years, not that bad. However, it is more difficult to meet attractive, successful people. I want to meet someone man or woman that would like to play, but must be able to take care of business. I prefer someone that will be aggressive, if not I will take charge... Been with a few men the last 2 yrs and I must admit they have not delivered.... If you don't give oral you may not want to reach out to me. I love getting and giving...
My Ideal Person: A woman is the most attractive creature on earth. I have had the desire to be with a woman for many years now. I would like a femi female that would want to be apart of my first experience. I love men however, and I do plan to one day marry and have children. For now I'm looking for a play mate.
Have you ever had cybersex?:No way. I only want skin on skin.