Women or Couples (man and woman) for Erotic Chat or Email, Discreet Relationship, Intimate Relations or Other "Alternative" Activities

I'm an attractive size 16 woman. I'm happily married am turned on by women. I'm hoping to find another bicurious woman to be a friend with benefits, if the chemistry is right. My husband is onboard and depending on how things go we may be interested in threesomes and or swapping....let's see what the future holds. I expect to be discreet; d/d free is a MUST and prefer non-smokers. I'm a bit reserved when it comes to getting things started and hope for the opportunity to chat and meet without expectations of jumping into bed right off the bat!
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, A store dressing room, A hotel room
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Massage
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet
Have you ever had cybersex?:Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.