Men for Intimate Relations, Erotic Chat or Email, Other "Alternative" Activities

I am smart, logical, introspective, kind, funny, compassionate, respectful, honest, loyal and HAPPY with my life.I am self sufficient... capable of managing my own life... and really it has nothing to do with my being submissive... and everything to do with my partner respecting the whole person I am..I seek similar qualities in a partner...--------So I just had a disagreement over what "friend" meant... I actually mean people I like and want to do things other than have sex with... not that sex is a bad thing... I just like things to be a bit more substantial than belt notching... had to be said for the sake of clarity...
My Ideal Person: I'm not looking for someone to build a house & white picket fence... but finding some good friends or simply pleasant people to play with on a regular basis would be great...
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds