Men for Intimate Relations

Seeking warm, affectionate, honest, communicative, generous men, (of their time, attention and activities)that can meet my needs socially, intellectually, emotionally and passionately. There could be more than one of you on here, and since I'm not seeking an exclusive thing right off the bat, that's why I'm here instead of traditional dating sites. But ultimately, I want that one man to explore all aspects of my sexuality with, in whom I have every faith and trust, who will put my needs, wants and desires on par with his - a true partner in every sense of the word. Too much to ask, impossible to find? Maybe not. I'm willing to work to find it and work to make it happen, all the while enjoying the process along the way. I'm bright, funny, intelligent, self-employed, and sane. I'm a sexual woman and have needs that are like any other person, and some that are not! - but also need time out of the bedroom and true companionship. If you're looking for a hookup or NSA/FWB only, that's not me. You're going to need to spend time with me, get to know me, let me get to know you. Please don't flirt or email or IM me if you're not willing to play by those rules. Body and figure wise, I've been told my body is beautiful, and most days I agree, but even though I'm in the fitness industry, I'm NOT super fit, hard body, ripped by any means! I'm curvy, a little soft around the edges, a little more meat on my bones but oh so proportionate! I have nice full breasts, hips and tummy, short strong legs, a graceful posture and excellent strength and flexibility - but I'm 48 - and some days, I feel it!I love the outdoors, the theater, musicals, plays, ballets, concerts. I like comedy, improv and neighborhood grunge theaters. Can do a dive bar as easily as The Pantages. Love hidden Hollywood and hidden Downtown. If you have a motorcycle and are a good and safe rider, I'll be your passenger. Love good food and some bad! I can dress up or down or not at all, depending on the mood.Most importantly, I am not a flake, I'm honest and up front. If I make a date to meet, I'll be there unless you've said or done something to make me think it's not a good idea to meet you after all. Any woman with half a brain will ask the same things of you before she lets you into her home, her bedroom or her body. If she doesn't, you get what you deserve and there are a lot of crazies out there! I'm strong willed and opinionated and used to taking care of myself, but getting a little tired of doing so. I'm a lady - a woman - "I've been around the world, I'm a woman not a girl - don't want no man with a monkey on his back, I need a real man." Bonnie Raitt....
My Ideal Person: First of all, please be local, within 20 miles or so. I'm not interested in long distance, take 2 hours to get there kind of a relationship. I had one, it doesn't work. NOT MARRIED OR ATTACHED IN ANY WAY - please, if your relationship isn't working, be a man about it and do her the favor of leaving it. I need a man who can be open and honest about our involvement and who isn't going to be embarrassed to introduce me to family and friends or explain how we've met. NO SMOKERS OR HEAVY/FREQUENT DRINKERS! Be strong without being domineering, confident without arrogance, kind without being a push over, intelligent without condescension, attentive & steadfast without being possessive. Above all be honest. Don't tell me what you think I want to hear in order to win me or bolster your ego. If that's your game, you will lose. I'm not into any type of look, because my looks can change frequently, but I do like taller or bigger men. Shorter men are just as fine, but if my shoulders are broader than yours, or I'm looking at the bald spot on the top of your head, sorry, it's not going to work. Be height/weight proportionate - I work hard to try to keep it that way and want my partner to try also. And who doesn't love muscles? As for age, please be within the age range of late 30's to 40's or early 50's. As far as sexual skills, I am an experienced, expressive, daring, sensual, passionate and considerate lover who can dominate or submit at will - you need to be so also. It's like an intricate dance of tempo, pace, position, emotion and flow. If you don't feel the same way, it WONT be a good match (at least for me). There HAS to be a relationship of some kind for that to happen. So, like I said, if you're just looking to hit it and get out, leave me alone. If you don't want some kind of connection of thought or feelings of me during the day, or at night, then again, please don't bother. I like to be in a man's head as much as in his arms. If you contact me via email here, please, include a FACE photo. I am very tired of penis photos, it takes more than that to get my attention. And please don't just say "hey, we should meet" - that's not a very compelling reason, is it? And please be able to spell, to know the difference between "then" and "than", that "would of" should be "would have", and that "they're", "there" and "their" are NOT interchangeable. And to the couples out there, yes, I have played with couples, and hopefully will continue to do so with my ultimate partner or on my own, but both of you need to contact me. All too often the man is searching for his own needs, and the woman is unaware that he's even made contact with me. Then when he does get her involved, poof, all of a sudden, they are not interested. Lastly, thank you for persevering to the end of this profile, but this is one avenue I seem to have right now for meeting my needs, and I want to make the best use of my time as I can. Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:Nah, I'd rather explore it instead
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:A bed, A dark back alley, An elevator, A hotel room
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level
Have you ever had cybersex?:No way. I only want skin on skin.