Men for Intimate Relations

After an ongoing struggle to connect with the Right man, i thought i would save my time and yours by starting off with a recap of what's below. This way you won't have to waste your time by reading, and i can limit my inbox from filling up with men who are not for me. I also do not respond to any messages until i have seen a pic. Please pursue someone else if any of these describe you...Married/Attached/Separated Yes, i included separated since no one on here is Really separated. It seems to be code for "unhappily married", and don't get me started on "Prefer Not to Say", Man-up already!A couple looking for a bi female I am Not bi, please believe me and understand that there is nothing you can do to convince me otherwise. I know what i like.A young boy looking for a cougar I am looking for an equal. I have no need to build my self-esteem by testing whether or not i've still got it... i already know i do and i want to share it with someone in my own age-range.A submissive man Need i say more?A bi-sexual man To each his own, but in my narrow little mind only one of us gets to enjoy giving a blow job, and i want that to be me ; )________________okay, i've been here six months now and i just re-read my profile and determined that it's time for a change. I think I will share how much I have learned about myself since joining this crazy dysfunctional family...I've learned that i LOVE men... i love the way you cut to the chase, i love how all you think about is sex, i love how you make me feel feminine, i love how you feel, how you smell and how you taste, i love your machismo toughness, your raw masculinity... all of it just makes me so happy to be a woman.I've learned that i am NOT bisexual... i've seen some beautiful women on here, and can appreciate their beauty like i can appreciate a piece of art, but i just can't get myself on board with the idea of pleasing a woman sexually. As far as being pleased by a woman... i guess i could shut my eyes and pretend there's a man between my legs, but when it came time for part two, she just wouldn't be able to deliver and i LOVE part two!I've learned that i am just not cut out to be "the other woman" in some secret rendezvous with a married man. I've met some great married/attached men on here, but they are someone else's "great guy", not mine... and my ego is just too big to accept that.I've learned that i am submissive... and have absolutely no desire to be dominant in a sexual relationship with a man. I am in control and assertive in my roles as a parent and as an employee... and i excel at both... but during intimate moments i want a man who is very comfortable taking charge. You are the hunter, and i need to be pursued.I've learned that the single most attractive characteristic that draws me to a man is confidence.... and we all know that i'm not talking about arrogance... huge difference! A man who knows his worth doesn't have to say a word to sell himself... it will be obvious in how he presents. And second runner up would be sense of humor... if i think you are funny we are half-way there.I've learned that i am shallow in regards to the need for physical attraction... i don't care if your profile could win the Pulitzer Prize in journalism circles... if i'm not visually attracted, it's just not gonna get off the ground. And attraction is so subjective... what tends to attract me is dark hair (graying dark hair is sexy, too), a solid build, taller than me with heels (which is not difficult since i am only 5'4"), rugged over smooth... every guy i've ever been drawn to has been considered "a man's man"... i'm not into the whole metrosexual thing... i wanna be the girl. okay, this could go on forever... but i won't delude myself into thinking anyone would be that interested... essentially my hope is that you are experienced and confident enough to take the lead... sexy and sensual enough to have some finesse in and out of the bedroom... intelligent and evolved enough to engage in some stimulating conversation... and smart enough to know a good thing when u see it.