Men or Couples (man and woman) for Intimate Relations, Other "Alternative" Activities or Group sex (3 or more!)

I'm a 46 year old professional female in Central Florida. I am intelligent, witty, very sensual, have a GREAT sense of humor, and I definitely have quite a "twist" to me. I tend to be quiet/shy until you get to know me. I enjoy the "standards"(movies, walks on the beach, candlelight, etc - who doesn't??)... Honesty and trust are EXTREMELY important to me, and they should be to you.
My Ideal Person: I'm looking for a man with a romantic heart. He is a protector by nature (but not controlling), and believes in being honest(it must be important - I've mentioned it twice). He is not opposed to or afraid of commitment, has a good sense of humor (if you can't laugh together - whats the point?), is financially secure (yes, I have a job), is VERY open-minded and enjoys intelligent conversation. He prefers to be "in charge" in the bedroom, and is open to trying new things..Must be at least a little adventurous -okay, a LOT adventurous...But,most importantly, I am looking for someone who wants me as much as, if not more than, I want him. He will know me better than I know myself. I want my kinky fairy tale!*UPDATE* I have been attempting to induce lactation for a while. My efforts seem to have paid off, for those interested...**okay, I spoke too soon. I need someone here to help me keep it going. Its not happening now. I can't do it alone****NEW UPDATE** Will need someone who doesn't mind being on cam, or letting me be on cam alone...I find I like the attention I get...I don't think he exists. After decades of searching, I still haven't found him. I've come close a couple of times, but close just isn't good enough. I'm tired of being 2nd, 3rd, or even 4th in line of importance to someone. I'm not going to settle. I don't think I'm asking too much, really..Seriously - I'd rather not spend the rest of my life as a plaything for someone who is married, otherwise attached, or just not interested in an relationship. I'm already a plaything - I want more, I need more. I deserve more! *Recent events have caused me to rethink my plaything status - I will consider the idea with the right person*(its better than being alone)WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have our permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, Anywhere
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each
Have you ever had cybersex?:I've tried it, but it's just not the same.