Men for Intimate Relations or Other "Alternative" Activities

I'm not on this site as a swinger, etc. I'm an alpha female looking for an alpha male. As an erotic poet and songwriter I want to sing your praise many years from now.I am jealous of the musician Sting, who recently was quoted in an article that what kept his marriage together for 30 years was "tawdry sex". So what are my corsets doing just laying there in a drawer? Waiting for you, of course.Besides having a healthy dose of my womanhood I love culture, sailing, skiing, fine restaurants, getting dirty in the flower bed, hiking, traveling, small aircraft aviation, and learning all the time. I'm also very creative.I'm still driving a sports sedan, manual shift as I have an attitude problem. I need a good man to calm me down.I dislike photos of guys in tee shirts and baseball caps. Show me that you have class, please.
My Ideal Person: He looks good, smells good, clean shaven, well groomed, professional or entrepreneur, upper-end-of-the-food-chain, sensuous, very sexual, monogamous, doesn't want to drop dead alone. Non-smoker, not a recovered alcoholic, etc., Must be 5'11 and up. I love around 6 ft tall and of average weight. I want to long for you after you leave in the morning leaving your kiss and cologne on my pillow.