Men for Discreet Relationship, Intimate Relations or Other "Alternative" Activities

PLEASE READ COMPLETELY BEFORE CONTACTING ME!! I am interested in making a connection and having some daytime friendship and fun with fit (NOT overweight, BBW, stocky, chubby, or heavy), attractive, UNDER the age of 40 (not attracted to older) men. I play on cam from time to time also. PLEASE be respectful if you see me on cam (NO rude comments or you will be banned)!
My Ideal Person: ***WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. ***I am married playing on my own without husband's knowledge so discretion, flexibility, understanding, and non-judgement is a MUST! Even with that said, I am looking to form a connection before having sex. I am NOT interested in fucking just anyone who contacts me. I LOVE MILITARY GUYS (and most hot men in uniform)! Please be a NON-SMOKER, NON-DRUG USER, and either a light or non-drinker as well as disease free and practice safe sex. Safe sex is a MUST so guys MUST be comfortable wearing a condom and able to maintain a good erection with a condom on. I am not into hairy guys and not a big fan of facial hair. You should be shaved or well trimmed below (no hairy pubes). You MUST be able to host and daytime availability is important. RECENT pics and/or a cam are a must. I will want to see pictures (or you on cam) BEFORE extensive chatting, speaking on the phone, or arranging a meet. I want to make sure there is an attraction there so that we don't waste my time or yours. The first meet MUST be a public, no pressure, no play meet. For this reason, I prefer locals. I do live close to John Wayne airport but if you're not visiting for a week or more, arranging two meets (one for the no pressure meet and second meet to play) could be very difficult as I am not available daytime every day. I am VERY affectionate and passionate. LOVE kissing, touching, foreplay, giving and receiving oral, and cuddling. I will only have intercourse with condoms (NO BAREBACK) and I am NOT into pain, anal penetration, swallowing cum, or dom/sub games (I believe the control should be shared).Please respect my preferences and Please be genuine! I'm not into wasting anyone's time and I don't want my time wasted either. Thanks, be safe, and have fun!
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Voyeurism
Have you ever had cybersex?:I've tried it, but it's just not the same.