Men for Erotic Chat or Email, Discreet Relationship or Intimate Relations

I am an attractive 44 year young married woman who is looking for a man who I can become friends with. This relationship may or may not go any further than a friendship. I am married and so it would be a very discreet relationship. I don't want any drama in my life so if you cant handle a discreet relationship, dont contact me. I love to have fun, laugh, chat and just enjoy livin life. Looking for someone who want to have fun with no strings attached.
My Ideal Person: A man who is confident in himself and who would like to get to know eachother and become friends and if and when we are both comfortable with each other, explore each other and learn and teach each other.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:A bed, The beach, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Food Play, Leather, Massage