Men, Women, Couples (man and woman), Couples (2 women) or Couples (2 men) for Discreet Relationship or Intimate Relations

I am a very open, playful person who has recently begun to explore my sexuality with more energy than ever before. I have some free time these days and would love to exchange some hot fun sexual caresses with clean, nice, sane, safe, fun men and/or women who enjoy touching and being touched. I'm new to Adult FriendFinder and much prefer making face to face contact after a phone call following a few email exchanges, but am not interested in getting to know people through email, texts or IMing. I am affectionate, fun, multi-orgasmic, flirty/squirty, shaved, and always very cautious. (Condoms a must) Open to all sorts of things, but not pain, scat, golden shower stuff or spanking. I think I am feeling very sexual at this age because of two reasons -- hormones, and long periods earlier in my life when I either was not having sex or not enjoying it. So now I am making up for lost time!I would describe myself as bi, and I have had some good experiences one on one with women, where the vibe and the experience is totally different than being with a man, both are really enjoyable to me. I have also had about five threesomes, one much more enjoyable than the others. What made it fun for me is when I am the center of attention and there are multiple hands all over me, which helps keep me from totally exhausing one person. Now there's some back up! What kind of people am I attracted to varies. I definitely prefer non-skinny people (male or female) but not so huge that they have difficulty breathing or that their genitals are not easy to see, find or access. I am a really independent, well-educated, well-traveled professional, creative person who is somewhat of a freespirit and somewhat of a feminist. So, not surprisingly, one of the things I don't really care for is men that I have never met, such as Adult FriendFinder members, calling me baby or honey before ever having meeting me. And, in all honesty, if you send me a message that is one sentence long or less, and/or the only picture of you is of your cock, I plan not to answer. Not that I don't appreciate the attention, but I am not going to really become intrigued with a picture of a penis and an accompanying note that says "Interested? Hit me up." That's just the kinda person I am!Here is what I am looking for -- either a regular fwb, or a team of irregular fwbs that I can rotate, such that there is always someone to call or text when I am feeling horny. I am not trying to find a boyfriend on Adult FriendFinder, but I do feel that I want to be comfortable with, and entertained by and comfortable and entertaining for, anyone I fool around with, so I would probably not be responsive to someone who lacks charisma, self-confidence, a sense of humor, or some pride in something. Since joining, I have received emails from men whose profiles are enticing but on the phone, after we talk, sound really lame, poorly socialized or unsocialized, desperate or sad to me. That's the kind of guy that I don't feel comfortable with. I really like people who are fun, interesting, confident, with a good sense of humor and adventure.In an encounter, ideally we would exchange a few emails through Adult FriendFinder, then exchange numbers and by phone make plans to meet, or make plans on line to meet, at a coffee shop near one of our places. During the conversation I would be checking for sparks and if I felt none flying, or the other person or couple felt none, I think it should be fair for either person to feel free to say so and cut the coffee time down and end things. Regarding looks, I have no specific typse. I'm very tall but have dated men who are shorter than me. Some guys could be the most handsome man on earth who would just not turn me on, whereas someone who is not necessarily an Adonis could seem very sexy to me. That's why I don't see the point of texting or on line chatting until after meeting face to face. IMing does not allow anyone to know the other person's tone of voice, or how they come across in person, all of which is really important.If there is an attraction, then we would go to one person or the other person's home and explore and discover each other's bodies, which for me would preferably include lots of kissing and touching, as well as breast play, fingering, and (possibly but not necessarily) penetration in a variety of positions IF the person is willing to use a condom and is able to maintain an erection. I enjoy fooling around even when no penetration occurs.I like sexual encounters to last for at least an hour. Some men can only last a few minutes of penetration and have no other erotic or fun tools in their tool kit, making the encounter far too short for me to find enjoyable. I'm just saying all this so as not to waste anyone's time. I think everyone should be open and up front about what they like and what they don't, and what they can't and/or won't do. In general, I'm using Adult FriendFinder to satisfy my sexual curiosity but do not want to wind up disappointing anyone else or leaving disappointed. I'm interested in finding sexual partners in this order: threesomes, women, and then men. I've been with so many more men than women and sometimes it's more exciting and long lasting with women than with men, if the men in question are self-centered and do not enjoy seeing their partners have multiple orgasms. But there's something really hot about the energy and essence of a man. The kind of guy I'm most interested in fooling around with is one who gets a lot of pleasure from seeing his partner receive pleasure. I'm open to being with a bi man and his male partner as well.The one thing I would LOVE to avoid is listening to a man's tales of woe. How he is neglected in his marriage, how he was sexually abused as a child, how he feels like he doesn't think his kids love him or whatever. TMI, and none of my business. For some reason, I tend to give off a vibe that I am open and willing to have people to confide in me their personal issues and problems, and I feel like this is a real buzz kill for me in mindless, random sexual experiences. It's not a role that I'm looking to play and won't expect anyone to play that role for me.I am really turned on by having sex in the office of a man I barely know as well! That's really fun to enter into a zone of freedom and let loose sexually in an impersonal environment, then get dressed and leave feeling exhilirated and relaxed. I am updating this after being a member for a week or so to save myself and others some time. I am only looking to meet face to face, and am not looking for online chatting or making contact with people outside of the ABQ area. By that I mean, don't expect me to open an email if your home address is Wichita, Kansas. I am also more likely to answer if you write something a little more interesting than Hi How are you? or What are you looking for? (esp since I explain that here). If you have read this far and don't think I am a beyotch (because I am really totally not!), please drop me a line, and if there is no face pic in your profile, please include one. Thanks and happy hunting!
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:Receiving Oral Sex, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Threesomes, Blindfolds, Massage
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level
Have you ever had cybersex?:No way. I only want skin on skin.