Men, Women or Couples (man and woman) for Discreet Relationship, Intimate Relations or Group sex (3 or more!)

I never thought I'd write this in here but...I've been hacked! *Someone* has been logging into my account and winking at the world and while I am a friendly person, this is just a little too much socialization for me...lol.I'm pretty easy going and laid back; I'm an intelligent professional who knows how to behave in public. I can carry on a decent conversation, aware of what's going on in the world and have many opinions that I don't share unless I'm asked. I'm not looking to find a soulmate on here (although I wouldn't turn away someone special just because we met on here), just potential friends who have similar interests and aren't afraid to show affection in an adult manner. I don't share myself indiscriminately; there has to be a connection between us of some kind. I'm looking for someone to do things with outside of the bedroom and then come back to do other things together.I love to sail (racing or just cruising around) - being out on the water, clothing optional of course...there's nothing better. Live music of most any kind is also good. Anything outdoors is great. I tend to decide pretty early on if I like someone or not and my affection flows after that.I personally respond to all polite, respectful emails as promptly as I am able. If you initiate a polite, thoughtful conversation, I'll respond. Rude, crude, "hey baby, wanna hook up?" emails get ignored. I don't like game-playing, will not tolerate dishonesty and being able to laugh is a must! So, I hate to do this but here's the rules:I'm not on here to text, flirt, chat, cam or watch videos. I know some people love to do all these things and I'm glad they've found a place to do that; there's a lot on here to see but I'm on here to make plans to meet people in real life. ***To that end, if you send too many flirts and don't follow up with an email...I'm going to block you. If you flirt and I flirted back - send an email and let's make some plans! If you're not going to ask to meet, please don't waste time our time; we all have so little of it anymore.Please note - if you're more than 25-35 miles away, please don't wink/hotlist/invite or otherwise contact me if you don't intend to do the traveling. I can find everything I need here and don't need to drive for hours just for a play date.
My Ideal Person: As I said above, I'm looking for someone to do things with outside the bedroom as well as inside. Someone who likes to go listen to music, sail, go to dinner, go to any of the many festivals/shows in the area, someone who likes to get out and do.I have a professional life and a private lif,e as I'm sure you do too. I like to keep them both separate; discretion is the better part of valor, yes?Someone who has a sense of humor and can carry a conversation; this implies a two-way dialog. If getting words out of you is like pulling teeth - go to the dentist, I don't have that much time. I'm quite willing to share pics with someone I'm planning to meet/get to know so just get in touch. And please don't send me pictures of your dick/clit - I know what they look like..I'm more interested in the person behind the private parts! If those are your only selling points, we probably won't have much to say to each other anyway.I have asthma and can't tolerate smokers - I'm sorry to all who do but it's not a good match for me. One last thing, it all comes down to personal preferences when you're talking about sex, right? And my personal preference and comfort level is for people of my own race...I know everyone understands having preferences...thanks for your understanding.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), An airplane, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, Anywhere
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Massage
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:not really, real people are more interesting
Have you ever had cybersex?:No way. I only want skin on skin.