Men or Women for Erotic Chat or Email, Discreet Relationship or Intimate Relations

Im a plain jane, no hangups, no children at home. I dont like liars, jealousy or cheats, been there done that, too old and tired to play those games.
My Ideal Person: Like I said above no lairs, cheats or jealous men. Im looking for that special someone, a Dinner, drinks and maybe a movie, get to know you first, then go from there. Im really looking for a man as tall or taller that me,(I love to wear heels and never been able to. For now Im looking just to relax and have some fun, life is too short to be a stick in the mud. I have been with a woman and will be willing to do it again. NO PICTURE NO RESPONSE. MEN IF YOU ARE MARRIED DONT ASK I WONT RESPOND I KNOW DISCREET AN IT AINT ALL THAT.
Have you ever had cybersex?:I've tried it, but it's just not the same.