Men for Discreet Relationship or Intimate Relations

I am a pretty easy person to figure out, I think. I'm educated, intelligent, slightly geeky in that I love technology, love my job, and I have pretty conservative values. But I also love life, love people, and am open-minded and liberal enough to let people be who they want to be without judgment. I am a nurturer at heart, and would love to treat a man like he deserves to be treated, with my utmost respect and admiration while taking care of home and family. But I also like working and "bringing home my share of the bacon", as well. Healthy relationships to me are partnerships - friendships, with mental as well as physical attraction and stimulation. Good communication and honesty is imperative! I guess my only turn-offs would be trash-talking and other redneck behavior. However, I'm far from being a prude, and laughing and having a good time is what makes life worth living! I love guys that don't take themselves too seriously but have confidence in themselves without having to prove their masculinity. I am very much a woman and truly appreciate the traits of a man. I value honesty, intelligence, and a sense of humor above all else, and I especially love a guy that makes me laugh. Believe me, when it comes to size...your brain matters to me the most.
My Ideal Person: I think in the long run, I am seeking what most of us seek, and that is simply companionship, romance, and yes, passion. This will sound trite and old-fashioned, but I truly want to feel butterflies in my stomach! I want to be REALLY kissed, slowly, tenderly, and with all the patience and passion in the world. I want meaningful touch, playful flirting and intelligent conversations. Surely there is a man out there that meets those qualifications?