Women for Discreet Relationship, Intimate Relations, Other "Alternative" Activities or Group sex (3 or more!)

So here's the boring stuff...mwf,39 5'7" long dark brown curly hair, big brown eyes, full lips, top heavy (38g) wear a size 16/18. He's 6'0" 41 185lbs...you get the idea. We have been together for over 14 years and together we enjoy pleasuring another woman. Looking for a woman to share fun times with, in and out of the bedroom.
My Ideal Person: Looking for a friend (or 2) with benefits. We want to know what makes you feel good and what you like (besides sex. There is something special about a woman's touch that I really enjoy. Age, height, weight are unimportant as long as you are drug and disease free! We enjoy camping, boating, dining out, comedy clubs, Indians/Browns games, movies and a quiet evening spent at home. Looking for someone who is not into head games but who would be interested in chatting then meet to see if there is a connection, just not into months of endless emails.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:NO
Have you ever had cybersex?:I've tried it, but it's just not the same.