Men, Women, Couples (man and woman) or Couples (2 women) for Intimate Relations, Discreet Relationship, Erotic Chat or Email, Group sex (3 or more!) or Other "Alternative" Activities

Really wanting to explore more sexual experiences - can you help me? I have a good sense of humour and can be witty, sarcastic and intelligent - not necessarily in that order. I am attached but he is not involved or aware of this endeavor, its all for me! I am not slim but curvy,short in stature but tall in personality. I love to laugh and debate and I love a challenge! I have long blond hair, green eyes and a nice smile - so I'm told.
My Ideal Person: I am most interested in meeting a lady to have some intimate encounters with.My ideal person is confident and patient. Some one who doesn't mind if I am skittish at first. Someone who would like to share a bottle of wine (or 2). I would like some one who will somewhat take charge (but not in a bossy, controlling way) and who is willing to indulge me. And a friend is always a welcome addition! I like feeling desired. I am not looking for quick flings or one night stands, but rather someone I can spend time with, have a conversation with and someone who genuinely cares. If this means some prolonged chatting to see if there is a connection, then that's what it will take. If you don't have the patience for this then I am not your girl!
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:nirvana
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Voyeurism
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:no, they are just people
Have you ever had cybersex?:I've tried it, but it's just not the same.