Archive for March, 2011

I’m looking for advice on how to get my wife interested or willing to try swinging? For those swingers here, how did you go about it? We’ve kind of talked about it but more jokingly than serious but I’m really wanting to do it.
I have joint one swinger dating site. very good site for swingers.Free and safe dating for you.

I have purchased items from the Adam and Eve catalog and I have seen their stores in Florida but have never gone into one. I would be interested in the thoughts of anyone who has.
I have purchased things from the Lover’s Lane catalog and have gone into their stores. I found the stores to be a bit lacking in overall selection but having more clothing items than the catalog.
As a person who has had more than a passing interest in BDSM, I have gotten the JT’s Stockroom catalog and go to their online site almost every day. Sometimes, I have gotten an idea about how to make a bondage item without having to purchase it. Call me cheap and ingenuitive. lol
There are several other sites that I have used in the past.
If you want to purchase an adult item, what would be your choice: mail order catalog, online sex site, actual adult store, or other?

I had a bit of fun over at rockwriter58′s blog with adding wonderful looking men’s pics to his top relatively unknown female picture selection.
I kind of added a hollywood squares type of selection, although if I’d been thinking like keithcancook, I’d have put myself in the center. I guess I still can, like this:
What would your Adult Sex Dating square look like?
P.S. to add pictures, which can only be the main profile pictures, use the square brackets, [], and to put my photo, you would put adult dating photo sexyfitwoman. Do not have spaces between the square bracket or the handle (the name of your profile is known as a handle). Here is an example for my sex dating picture with spaces added so you can see what you type in, just don’t type the before and after space.

I noticed some questions on anal sex on free dating sites, and as a later cummer to it, and one who had a very strong, “my ass is an exit only” view for a long time, well, I figured I’d share what changed that.
I think of myself as fairly open minded, and I gave anal a try, well, several tries early in my adult sex dating life.
The first time was at 18, and I have written a couple posts about that night, most recently, “The 3-Some,” and it was also the night that I responded sexually to pain, and I wrote an earlier post on that as well. That was a night of expanding and exploring my sexual limits, and that night he didn’t ask, he just went for my ass and it made me scream with pain, not pleasure and that was that for anal that night.
I tried a couple times with my next b/f, but he was practically a virgin and neither of knew how to make it work, so again with the pain and after a couple painful tries, I wasn’t interested in trying again.
Then about 4 years later, I tried again with a new b/f and he wasn’t that thick and it still hurt like hell, and he made a comment that my ass was so tight it was hurting him. So, that was that for many years and I was unwilling to try again, an absolute mind set against it, and I really believed I’d given it a fair shot.
What made me change my mind was reading an article on online sex dating which talked about this problem, and even went as far as to warn guys to not make the mistake of hurting your partner because you might never get another chance, but he talked about how to introduce anal sex properly.
It had never occurred to me that there was a right way to introduce anal sex dating.
For me, once I was determined to make it work, it took trying over 3 different days to be successful, and a couple more times after that before I started asking for it, wanting it and getting turned on thinking about it. The article wisely said it might take a few tries to be successful and if I’d only given it one try again, I wouldn’t be an anal sex lover right now.
We actually got further the first day then the second because of going too fast the second day. Third try it worked, but it took 15-20 minutes to let me get comfortable before getting going and even though we managed to get it to work, I wasn’t too sure how I felt about it.
Looking back, I’m actually quite disappointed that I didn’t figure it out earlier because it can feel so good.

I was just thinking about the things that I respond to sexually, that is that make me horny, when I’m cruising around Adult Sex Dating.
My sex dating profile shows links to squirt groups and some of my earlier posts were on squirting. Well, I’ve gotten email, and comments describing how to make one squirt. I don’t know if they’d me squirt or not, but is sure in arousing reading about it.
Mnfun952 writes the hottest stories, makes me horny frequently.
Some of the comments left on posts get me going. Recently a simple “Damn, I’d like to bend you over,” sent tingles through me, as do some of the comments about what one would like to do to me.
I seem to have sexual response to what many describe as “crude,” not all “crude” but at least some “crude.” Really, where are my standards? Fuck standards. Who needs them, I like being made horny.
And then, there are the rock hard cock sex pictures. To me, they promise such pleasure.
Being on Adult Sex Dating is a constant source of arousal.
I was just wondering, what kinds of things to you find yourself responding to?

I was asked for feedback on a Adult Sex Dating profile, and what did it say? Well, it didn’t exactly say fuck anything with a hole, but all it said was that he was interested in women or couples and went I thought about it, fuck anything with a hole is how it came across, as do quite a few sex dating profiles.
So, I wrote back that most women don’t want to be one in a series of lovers so it would have limited appeal to women on here.
The response I got back said more about him and what he wanted and upped his appeal level immeasurably. Between being a single dad who works a lot, he’s found the relationship thing hasn’t worked out as he hasn’t been able to give the time women have desired. He really does want a regular lover that can be happy with what he has to offer, so he’s concluded someone who also has commitments that limit time, but would appreciate what two people can offer each other within those time constraints is who he’s looking for. And he wants the intimacy, adult personals, friendship and companionship of a regular partner.
This is a free online dating site, and yes, it does make sense to include your sexual interests in your free dating profile, but I think showing who you are as a person can increase sexual appeal immeasurably.

Hairy or not is a personal preference both for the individual in how they keep their body and for their tastes in their partner. I would tend to think that if you like bush, you like it both on your partner and on yourself and if you like clean shaven on yourself; it is probably also a preference for a partner.
I have decided that I like some shaving down there, and tonight I was struck by how strongly influencing that preference is when viewing pictures at online sex dating.
Note the difference
Clean shaven: He feels so nice and smooth under my tongue. I run my Adult Dating;