I think most of us know the rules of the game here on Adult Sex Dating or any other adult networking sites. I think no one here wants our dear family, friends or colleagues to find out about our alternative lifestyles on Adult Sex Dating. So understandably, being discreet is very important in any Adult FriendFinder relationship. I expect that of all of my partners, and I do the same for them coz’ thus is small world we live in and I certainly don’t want any of my partners bragging about his romps to someone who just turns out to be someone I know. Even more disturbing if when a partner actually suggests me to meet his friends. Err ok. I can just imagine having sex with guys who know each other, after which they’d be sitting around over a bunch of drinks sharing their sexperiences about the same girl, ie. me. That is just “ewww”.
On the other hand, while discretion is important, being too discreet can be annoying as well. I don’t want people I know to know about my naughty lifestyle. But I also want to get to know a potential sex partner before jumping into bed with him. I mean, to me, if you’re a guy who doesn’t care about a girl’s personality and is out to meet girls who just want sex and don’t care to get to know each other, then by all means, save yourself the bother of having to take an Adult Sex Dating girl out for chit chat and drinks, and use the dinner money to get yourself a few hours with a prostitute. So with that in mind, here are some Adult Adult Sex Dating experiences I’ve had in which the need for too much discretion just kinda turned me off.
1) Guys who send me messages telling virtually nothing about themselves, and even worse, their online sex dating profile says something along the lines of “You want to get to know me? Ask me lah? Huhuhuh *smiley face* “. I don’t know if the intention here is to be discreet or just that the guys are too darn lazy to write up a better adult sex profile, but I highly doubt that there would be many girls who would ACTUALLY bother to ask a guy stuff about him when they can save their time by checking out guys who actually do tell stuff about themselves about their adult profiles. And at least the latter have more chance of writing something about themselves that a girl would find attractive.
2) Guys who interrogate me just to make sure that they don’t know me. And they ask me if the name I gave them is my real name, or my pics are real, when I can just as easily lie in response if I was actually lying in the first place. Like ok, if it turns out I know a guy, then it might be weird, but again, we both have the same dirty little secret and we both don’t want the dirty little secret to get out. I keep yours if you keep mine, and either we have a romp anyway or just pretend it never happened. But personally, making me feel like I’m in the MACC hot seat kinda kills the libido.
3) Guys who just totally freak when I ask about details about themselves. There was one guy I met who I asked where he worked, and he was like “Shh, secret!”. And I was like ok, he’s a guy of high position in his company, so I’ll let that pass. Then he told me he was going on a trip, and I asked who he was going with, and again he was like “Shh, secret!”. That was just annoying. Otherwise, romping with him was pretty fun… but I look at the whole experience and that just made a it a bit blah.
Fortunately, such incidents are rare… and I would think that there are some girls out there who are just as annoyingly discreet and are fine romping with a guy they know nothing about (so don’t assume my preferences represent those of the general female population!). But for me, a guy who is perfectly comfy telling me stuff about himself is more interesting than a guy who is secretive. I have two favourite fuck buddies now, and both of whom tell me anything and everything under the sun about themselves, and I greatly enjoy their company, both in and out of bed.

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