Ugh, this is the new buzz word among safe adult sex dating health workers.
Article in the paper today that got my attention says that all rates of sexually transmitted diseases are up and in Canada there have been 16 cases of a new potentially deadly strain of Chlamydia, only one in my province so far.
They think that more people are not playing safe anymore because of a belief that better drugs will cure you. I don’t think they have this one right at all.
I think the internet has made it much easier to say what want sexually, or just that you are interested in being sexual. Just look at my recent blog, “Adult Sex Dating,” and there was no question we both wanted it. With the desire and need I had, well, I doubt either of us would have been afraid to go to that next step.
I think my reasons for not having adult sex back then would have been that unwritten book of “rules” that I’ve referred to in past blogs — if you do it too fast — he won’t respect you, fear of AIDS, and one other reason that is harder to explain.
My blog about the sex dating nightclub is about a wondrous sexual experiences that was a one night stand, and could never be anything more from the first interaction with the guy. It was such a night to remember, but, I was crawling the walls with desire and want within a couple day, and I’m like that.
Good sex completely turns me on to wanting to be a total fuck machine and if it isn’t going to be with the one that has unleashed the desires, then whom, the walls I have crawled up? A string of one night stands? Going without is so much easier to manage then the level of need good sex unleashes. The string of one stands isn’t what I want, and with engaging in a new sexual partner, there is always a lack of trust that he will be there for what adult sex should be, both for that first encounter and for continuing encounters.
In the 80s and 90s think a lot of adult friend weren’t having the adult sex they wanted because of fear of AIDS, and now they are and that is contributing to these increases.
How have your attitudes towards engaging in sex with a new online dating partner changed over this period?

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