Starvation sex
The way I see it, there are two kinds of starvations adult sex, although both mean you are starving for it.
The two kinds can be broken up into that which you may experience in the bounds of a relationship and then there is that which you experience because you don’t have a partner or you do have a partner but look after your needs with someone other then your partner.
Starting the latter, starvation sex here is the first sexual contact after going far too long without. It is hard to have bad adult sex under these circumstance, indeed, I think adult sex at this time results in some of the best memories you can hold because not only is there the excitement of someone new, your need is so heightened, things you aren’t normally crazy about feel awesome. And, you’re trying to make up for lost adult sex, so marathon sessions of all night adult play aren’t that unusual. My story about the night club in an earlier blog fall into this category.
Then there’s the starvation adult sex experienced because of the ties of a relationship. Either you or your partner isn’t too interested any more. Perhaps hygiene isn’t as good as it used to be, or there has been lots of weight gain, or you tend to have different sexual preferences and they’ve caught up to you, or you just don’t get along and having sex is the last thing you want from each other, or there are a number of reasons, but for whatever reason, sex between you and your partner just isn’t meeting your needs and masturbation is often preferable, or the only option you have.
The starvation sex here is with the partner that you’re experiencing the difficulties with, so either you or your partner has to be starved enough to agree to sex, and when you enter adult sex under these conditions, just how satisfying do you think it is? It practically never results in a marathon sex session, and more often, it is an exercise if finishing quickly. Indeed, if one or both of you weren’t starving bad enough for it, it wouldn’t be happening.
Both are starvation adult sex, yet so different. What do you think?