I have a spare moment so this is a brief continuation of my series of blogs: On Being Submissive.
On this subject the response and emails are amazing. It seems many guys love submissive females and many women want to be submissive. Of course the reverse is also true.
There has been quite a lot of curiosity about “punishment” and how this works in bdsm play. So – here’s my take on the subject.
In bdsm, punishment is one of those contradictory elements that often arise. For example, when you are “bad” you are rewarded and when you are “good” you are punished.
A good girl – in societal terms – is one who does not engage in sex – let alone deviant sex. A bad girl – in societal terms – has LOTS of sex: she is cock hungry, wants all her holes fucked, wants pussy – whatever – the variations are endless.
In bdsm you get rewarded for wanting lots of bad things and there are no prizes for being good! Reward here is FUN and lots and lots of powerful orgasms.
“Punishment” has a strong humiliation element – another very potent erotic trigger. [I'll talk about humiliation in another blog - it's a BIG topic].
I know that some of what I say seems contradictory. It’s hard to make sense of sexual proclivities. You see, being “punished” actually is a REWARD, and if I was NOT punished then that in itself IS a real punishment!
If you want to understand how Jon has got me to the point of enjoying “punishment” please refer to my earlier blogs. I really CRAVE punishment and I’ll do all sorts of things to “entice” Jon to punish me.
In this pic you can see “tiger stripes” of punishment. It actually looks worse than it feels…
And in an odd perverse way it FEELS just wonderful!

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