A few days ago we met a really nice Floridian couple. He was dom and she was subbie.
In the course of the evening (after seeing what Jon and I did) our dom friend asked for help to properly train his subbie.
The method the dom was using on his subbie was based on fear. That is, he used the whip and other threats to MAKE her do things! This is a common mistake made by many dominants when they play with subbies.
Needless to say – she was not all that happy about his methods.
It was sad because she WANTED to be trained and made to do all sorts of things. Her dom just did not know HOW to effect it properly.
So, here are a few sex slave “secrets”.
Training simply does not work when you say: “Do THIS you slut, or I’ll whip the shit out of you!”
He or she may do what you ask but you are just setting up a resistance that is very hard to eventually overcome.
Training your subbie must to be based on TRUST and REWARD. It’s a slow process.
First, your partner must be willing to be trained. So Safe, Sane, and Consentual is really important – that’s the trust part.
Next, you simply use Pavlovian principles – association, encouragement, reward.
A reward can be anything that your partner really enjoys or desires.
What’s the BEST reward you can give your subbie? Yeah, no prizes for guessing – it’s the BIG “O”!
So in effect you say: “Do this …!” Then you eventually reward with a really nice orgasm or other desired activity!
Training can progress in different ways. For example, make your girlfriend stand, tie her hands above her head up, make her orgasm and as she is cumming, spank her or whip her. Start off doing this lightly – and gradually over the weeks increase the intensity of spanking!
Her body soon associates the spanking with pleasure.
You can eventually make her do just about anything you want. Works just was well on guys too.
Just remember, your partner should desire the road you’re taking – no point making her / him do things they don’t really want to do!
This stuff works! I’ve trained lots of female subbies to do plenty of naughty girl-on-girl things! And I’m always looking for younger females to play with and train.
Jon uses the same methods on ME! He makes me do some crazy things – and I just LOVE it!
In this pic Jon is training me as I described above …
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