Archive for February, 2011

It was suggested that many people on this site are seeking sexual satisfaction to cover inner hurt.
I came to this site quite by accident, and if you read one of my earlier blogs, I was quite horrified the first time I got email, I mean sheesh, what kind of person would be e-mailing me on a sex site???? What kind of people have nothing better to do then hang around a friggin sex site???? They must have abhorrent sexual desires, and can’t be trusted!!!!! Adult Dating;

The hot water tank is full. The sheets are messy, his skin tastes like salt. I feel good. I want to wash his body.
I look into his eyes, and the lust is back, as he grows in my hand.
The water beats on my head as I suck on his cock, taking it deep into my mouth, in and out, flicking my tongue over the head, getting lost in just the feeling of him in my mouth.
He tugs my hair, and I stand before him, my back against the wall. He lifts me and pushes me into the wall, entering me, holding me up and driving me insane with his thrusts. I am getting lost. Adult Dating;

There are so many things to like and love about the build up to love making, and the things you do, but what about after? What kind of wonderful reminders to you have?
It was so wonderful when…
My mind replays the night and my breasts tingle and my pussy desires more in response.
I need to sit down tenderly, all day, such a sweet, soft tender sore reminder…
None of the day can wipe the smile off my face, or the sparkle in my eyes.
My whole body glows and feels good.
You let me know you’re replaying it too.
You sated me to sleep.
My sleep was so deep and so long.
I forgot what was so stressful before.
I’m looking forward to more…

Welcome to my first column on health and lifestyles for Adul Sex Dating ………
Sex is many things, and today we will view sex as a sport and cross training, one of the most important parts of a good sex life in online dating. There are lots of reasons to cross train for the sport of sex.
It reduces body fat. We are all visually stimulated to some degree and to touch and feel silky skin and the muscle tone below, well, that’s just hot.
It improves blood flow to the penis. What else needs to be said?
It gives you energy in the sack. Slow sex can be very nice and is part of a good sex life, but truly wild sex, where the sheets are soaking, and bodies are covered in sweat, well, that requires fitness, and it is so worth the effort.
Most importantly, it improves moods, it is the most effective anti-depressant, and looking after self makes you feel good about yourself. How can that not help a sex life? Adult Dating;

He has taken hold of my fantasies, lust and burning desires. The lust, fantasies, desires are so strong, masturbating helps, but I need to express these desires with him. And he is not here. I am constantly horny.
My sleep is restless, every pore in my body is burning with desire, and want, want to be sucking his cock, rubbing his body against mine, feeling his lips on both sets of mine. I am moaning and my hips are rolling through my restless sleep. He is cupping my breasts as I moan and roll my hips. I feel his kisses all over my body, I know I am sleeping, but it feels real, and I continue to moan, restless sleep, rocking my body back and forth.
He is so fit, firm, silky skin, sensuous. My desire, my need, I am sleeping, but his body merging with mine, with wild, sweaty tearing the bed apart fucking. My sleep is so restless. I sleep, yet I am moaning, horny, rolling back and forth. In my dreams he pounding my pussy, making me cum over and over, a wild man, I can’t get enough of and he can’t get enough of me. We are consumed by each other.
He is body covers mine and I feel his breath on me, so warm and I hear his moans with mine, and we fuck and fuck and fuck. I moan and roll and moan, such a restless sleep. His hands are all over me, and my desire and lust burns out of control as I moan and roll and thrash in my sleep.
It is morning and I awaken. I am so wet, the sheets are wet. My legs are wet almost down to my knees. What a dream, I remember the moaning and thrashing. I can’t believe how messy the sheets are. Oh, what a number you are doing on me.

For some time now I have been facinated by the idea of BDSM and kinky sex as “Creation”. Let me explain…

WORDS conjure up ideas. So when we read novels, we picture in our minds conceptions of whatever the author intended. It’s just a picture in our minds – it’s not ALIVE.

And, so it is with movies too. We’re provided with a picture, but again it’s NOT alive. You can say the same for just about all communication – on the phone, speaking, internet surfing, “cybering” and so on.
Now how is BDSM dating and kinky sex different? Well, the wonderful thing is that BDSM play is ideas made manifest – just the opposite of words above. In BDSM play I CREATE. I think, I desire, then we MAKE it happen. Adult Dating;

I have a spare moment so this is a brief continuation of my series of blogs: On Being Submissive.
On this subject the response and emails are amazing. It seems many guys love submissive females and many women want to be submissive. Of course the reverse is also true.
There has been quite a lot of curiosity about “punishment” and how this works in bdsm play. So – here’s my take on the subject.
In bdsm, punishment is one of those contradictory elements that often arise. For example, when you are “bad” you are rewarded and when you are “good” you are punished. Adult Dating;

It was a time when men and women dress up to go out, men in their casual dress pants, hot silk shirts, women showing their figures and maybe some skin.
I went with a friend and we wanted to dance. He was so handsome, in his sailor whites, oh and so polite.
He danced most of the night with me, his southern accent chilling my spine. His voice, gentle politeness, sweet conversation, and the feel of his body when we slow danced. “They” had always made “picking” up someone in a bar or night club sound so crude, so low class, but what was happening here was magical. Who are “they?” Adult Dating;

In BDSM sessions there are just TWO ways it can play out:
1. Things are DONE to the subbie (by a dom or group), and/or
2. The subbies is MADE TO DO things.
All bdsm play is a variation of these two.
In this blog I’ll just talk about the first. I’ll discuss the second in my next blog.
Why does a girl allow things to be DONE TO her?
Well, it’s simple. When things are being DONE to a girl – she is THE CENTER OF ATTENTION! And what girl doesn’t want to be the center of attention?! Adult Dating;

A few days ago we met a really nice Floridian couple. He was dom and she was subbie.
In the course of the evening (after seeing what Jon and I did) our dom friend asked for help to properly train his subbie.
The method the dom was using on his subbie was based on fear. That is, he used the whip and other threats to MAKE her do things! This is a common mistake made by many dominants when they play with subbies.
Needless to say – she was not all that happy about his methods. Adult Dating;