Well, let’s face it, on a site looking for sex partners, I think physical attractiveness in a potential sex partner is one of the more important considerations on everyone’s list, if not the most important for some people. And I do wonder how many guys actually come on this site thinking they can get an easy romp with a lady who’s just out for mindless sex and not really caring about a guy’s personality.I would think such guys would be sorely disappointed unless they get REALLY lucky. For the most part, I believe the real ladies on Adult Sex Dating (as in those not out for money, or scammers) know what kind of guy they want and therefore guys on this site, as horny as you are, must be able to understand the importance of getting to know a girl you’re interested in.
For me personally, while a certain level of physical attractiveness is of course important, I’m happy to have proven to myself that I’m not quite that shallow and I thought I might be when I first joined this site. There was a guy I was chatting who showed me some pics of himself and I thought he is HOT. But once I chatted with him a bit more, it became apparent that he wasn’t interested in getting to know me much, and even asked for a ‘quickie’ for a first date. Totally lost interest after that. Interesting personality has always been the main thing I look for in a guy. Simply because I don’t quite like the idea of awkward silence after sex, no matter how great the sex is. Good conversation before and after is essential as well! I’ve happily romped with guys who are… not that great looking, but caught me with a good sense of humour.
On a slightly different note, I’ve also heard that some Asian girls ONLY go for the white guys on Adult Personals and are not interested in Asian guys. Reasons being most Caucasian guys are ‘apparently’ better in bed compared to their Asian counterparts. Errr, to be honest, I haven’t been with enough Caucasian guys to really compare, but most of the guys I’ve been with have been Asian (predominantly Chinese), and while I wouldn’t say I’ve had mind-blowing sex with all of them, I have a couple of regular Chinese guys I like to meet up with whom I have a fantastic time with in bed. So I would say to all the white-skin hunting ladies, don’t knock the Asian guys coz’ they can be pretty fun to be with too.

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