Archive for February, 2011

He has taken hold of my fantasies, lust and burning desires. The lust, fantasies, desires are so strong, masturbating helps, but I need to express these desires with him. And he is not here. I am constantly horny in sex dating.
My sleep is restless, every pore in my body is burning with desire, and want, want to be sucking his cock, rubbing his body against mine, feeling his lips on both sets of mine. I am moaning and my hips are rolling through my restless sleep. He is cupping my breasts as I moan and roll my hips. I feel his kisses all over my body, I know I am sleeping, but it feels real, and I continue to moan, restless sleep, rocking my body back and forth.
He is so fit, firm, silky skin, sensuous. My desire, my need, I am sleeping, but his body merging with mine, with wild, sweaty tearing the bed apart fucking. My sleep is so restless. I sleep, yet I am moaning, horny, rolling back and forth. In my dreams he pounding my pussy, making me cum over and over, a wild man, I can’t get enough of and he can’t get enough of me. We are consumed by each other.
He is body covers mine and I feel his breath on me, so warm and I hear his moans with mine, and we fuck and fuck and have adult sex. I moan and roll and moan, such a restless sleep. His hands are all over me, and my desire and lust burns out of control as I moan and roll and thrash in my sleep.
It is morning and I awaken. I am so wet, the sheets are wet. My legs are wet almost down to my knees. What a dream, I remember the moaning and thrashing. I can’t believe how messy the sheets are. Oh, what a number you are doing on me.

Well, let’s face it, on a site looking for sex partners, I think physical attractiveness in a potential sex partner is one of the more important considerations on everyone’s list, if not the most important for some people. And I do wonder how many guys actually come on this site thinking they can get an easy romp with a lady who’s just out for mindless sex and not really caring about a guy’s personality.I would think such guys would be sorely disappointed unless they get REALLY lucky. For the most part, I believe the real ladies on Adult Sex Dating (as in those not out for money, or scammers) know what kind of guy they want and therefore guys on this site, as horny as you are, must be able to understand the importance of getting to know a girl you’re interested in.
For me personally, while a certain level of physical attractiveness is of course important, I’m happy to have proven to myself that I’m not quite that shallow and I thought I might be when I first joined this site. There was a guy I was chatting who showed me some pics of himself and I thought he is HOT. But once I chatted with him a bit more, it became apparent that he wasn’t interested in getting to know me much, and even asked for a ‘quickie’ for a first date. Totally lost interest after that. Interesting personality has always been the main thing I look for in a guy. Simply because I don’t quite like the idea of awkward silence after sex, no matter how great the sex is. Good conversation before and after is essential as well! I’ve happily romped with guys who are… not that great looking, but caught me with a good sense of humour.
On a slightly different note, I’ve also heard that some Asian girls ONLY go for the white guys on Adult Personals and are not interested in Asian guys. Reasons being most Caucasian guys are ‘apparently’ better in bed compared to their Asian counterparts. Errr, to be honest, I haven’t been with enough Caucasian guys to really compare, but most of the guys I’ve been with have been Asian (predominantly Chinese), and while I wouldn’t say I’ve had mind-blowing sex with all of them, I have a couple of regular Chinese guys I like to meet up with whom I have a fantastic time with in bed. So I would say to all the white-skin hunting ladies, don’t knock the Asian guys coz’ they can be pretty fun to be with too.

IMHO from Adult Sex Dating emails, it’s not too difficult to identify a guy is only cares about pleasing himself in bed from a guy who enjoys pleasing his lady in bed.
My rule of thumb is, the higher the level of a guy’s patience, the more likely he’s the type who likes to please his lady and not just himself.
The level of a guy’s patience can be ascertained from how quickly he wants to jump into bed with me. And is this respect, Adult Sex Dating emails I get from guys fall into 3 main categories:
1) The ones who obviously want to jump into bed with me ASAP (and probably anything else with a vagina). Adult Dating;

Girls posting up their contact numbers or email addresses on their Adult Sex Dating profiles (in code language of course, since Adult Sex Dating has a way to block these things) will no doubt get a lot of attention. Guys, unfortunately, probably aren’t so lucky. And I have a theory that guys posting up their contact details on their profile do more harm than good in terms of attracting the ladies. So I thought, let’s do a poll to find out. Adult Dating;

Among quite a number men on Adult Adult Sex who tend to think with the wrong head in dealing with the ladies here, I am glad that I have met some very respectable guys here. Respectable in the sense that they actually treat the ladies as people with personalities and not just another piece of meat ready for the humping, asking to get it on NOW.
The first guy I hooked up with here thus far left me with the best piece of advice based on his experiences with ladies on Adult Adult Sex. He’s been an Adult Adult Sex-er for quite some time. So it was after we had our romp at his place, and we were chatting about Adult Adult Sex and I remember he said something along the lines of the following points. Adult Dating;

Hi everyone
Ok, we are preparing to go on a pretty long trip – Hawaii, Japan, SE Asia, Australia.
First stop Honolulu.
I won’t be blogging for a day or so while we are on the road – or in the air is more like it.
I’ll try to get some mile high pics – though that may be difficult.
Here’s a pic of me the last time I was in Honolulu. For those who recognize the bed cover – yes, it’s the BOQ at Tripler.
See you all in Honolulu.

I always love going back to Hawaii because there is an aspect of the place that deeply transends the dull hand of Christian sexual morality.
When Europeans first arrived in Hawaii – they came with a prevailing consciousness of Rousseau?s ?noble savage?. And that included a real interest in the “free” sexuality of the Hawaiians and other Polynesians.
Then by the 1890s, it is said, the Hawaiian way of life was well and truely destroyed.
Or was it destroyed?
Well, many aspects of Hawaiian culture WERE destroyed but many remain below the surface working away at idiotic Western beliefs and mores. Adult Dating;

I’m just musing and thinking about our upcoming trip to Honolulu.
One of the nicest things about the place is the attutude to sex. I want to cover this particular topic in another blog.
But tonight I want to write about the GREAT value military guys are – sexwise.
Many of my girlfriends don’t agree with me on this – they stay away from guys in the services.
Well, that’s not what happens with me. I just LOVE these guys. Adult Dating;

Well lots of nice email responses on this “helpless” post.
Someone asks: how long do I enjoy being tied up in one position and what do I do after I’m untied.
Well, I really enjoy being tied up – but it hurts if I’m kept in the same position for a long time. Usually 15 minutes in one position is fine – then I like to be tied up in another position.
Often, when I’m being untied to change positions my hands may stretch out a grab a cock or two. When I have a cock in hand the guys are usually reluctant to then tie me up – it seems.
This pic shows what often happens …

I think most of us know the rules of the game here on Adult Sex Dating or any other adult networking sites. I think no one here wants our dear family, friends or colleagues to find out about our alternative lifestyles on Adult Sex Dating. So understandably, being discreet is very important in any Adult FriendFinder relationship. I expect that of all of my partners, and I do the same for them coz’ thus is small world we live in and I certainly don’t want any of my partners bragging about his romps to someone who just turns out to be someone I know. Even more disturbing if when a partner actually suggests me to meet his friends. Err ok. I can just imagine having sex with guys who know each other, after which they’d be sitting around over a bunch of drinks sharing their sexperiences about the same girl, ie. me. Adult Dating;