Archive for August, 2011

I’m so glad I don’t have to worry about this shit any more.
My girlfriend on this site is meeting a guy who has now ADMITTED to lying about his age by 11 years. I think it’s a bad idea to meet him. My general experience, is that when guys lie about the very OBVIOUS things (their age, by a decade) that are inconsequential (his real age is still over 5 years younger than her), it’s a bad sign.
Still, there seems to be this universal attitude, whether it’s on this site or in movies/TV that if you are lying to get laid, it’s all understandable and ok.
Claim you’re not married? … that’s ok.
Tell a girl that you love her, you want a relationship with her, just so that she’ll fuck you? … hey! Doesn’t EVERYONE do that???
Personally, I think that’s what happened in the William Kennedy Smith rape case. I think he led her to believe that she was more to him … and as soon as he fucked her, he dropped her, and probably mocked/disrespected her too. (I lived in Palm Beach ages ago, and I knew some of the people who testified in that case.)
It’s an interesting philosophical debate, however. At what point does “consensual” sex become non-consensual? What if a woman agreed to have sex with “X” only to find that he wasn’t “X” at all?

Hi, I’m a single guy looking for one or more friends to spend some time and enjoy whats left of this summer. I’ve been trying to meet others on here but no luck so far. There seem to be sooooo many fake profiles on Adult FriendFinder i am beginning to wonder if there are any real ones for ladies and specifically ones in my region. I’d love to go out to a dinner and movie or walk in park or even at the mall or barnes and noble or wherever you’d like to meet and go to and get to know each other some.
I’m hoping some of you will read this and try to talk to me a bit at least. I dont know what all you ladies are looking for in a guy but i am real, i am sincere, kind, caring, mature, sensitive, love to have fun, oh and i’m good in bed too that I hope you will find out for yourself. You cant always tell by just a picture of someone who is right for you so give me a chance.
I have a very strong sexual appetite waiting for you to come join me. I know i dont have any nude pics of myself posted so maybe some of you arent giving me a chance because of that I dont know?
I’d like to hear some feedback on what you think of me. You can be truthful even if its harsh. Anyway talk to you soon I hope.

That’s just dumb. You know how you don’t get conned on the first date? Don’t give it up! Keep your damn clothes on! I’m not saying there’s a magic bullet into a woman’s pants, but with trial and error comes at least a solid attack plan for fucking women. If you don’t want to get duped you have to outlast the casual miscreant looking for an easy score.
So no sex on the first date. The second critical error I mentioned earlier? The woman thought her approach warranted the title ‘dating.’
You can’t be serious, can you? Dating? If you define dating as going out once to have sex, you’ve been misinformed. Dating is a time-involved, multi-appearance ritual between two people. It typically involves activities, and at no time is sex a requirement.
If you want to involve sex in dating, that’s fine – but I suggest that you do it with someone farther into your schedule of mutual events. That’s the only surefire way I can think of to avoid getting humped and dumped.
And if your goal on the first date includes sex, you might want to re-evaluate your plans for commitment. Keep the attachment level as low as possible. Or at least go out with the knowledge that it might only happen once, and all that sweet-sounding bullshit you just endured was only to achieve what just happened to you.
Because if your world comes tumbling down after it happens to you, and you read all these words above, you were warned and you were careless anyway.